How Play Fosters Inclusivity, Builds Confidence, and Connects Every Child
It was just another day at Deonar Colony, where a Toybank play session was underway. The room was buzzing with excitement and laughter, children busy in discussions, strategising, putting their best ideas forward on how to play the games to the best of their abilities. Among these children was Afzal, a determined Class 7 student. Afzal is a child with physical disabilities and finds everyday activities difficult. His classmates would not include him in games and this bothered Afzal, as he felt lonely.
However, on a particular day, the power of play revealed itself in an extraordinary way.
As the play session began, children eagerly rushed to the table of board games and play kits. Afzal stepped forward and asked our Outreach Play Worker if he could take a game that he could play by himself. He was handed Balance The Ladders — a game that requires precision and patience. It wasn’t easy for him. He tried, failed, and tried again. His first attempts ended in the ladder toppling over. But the game had sparked a desire to keep going. Play is a powerful motivator for children as it taps into their natural curiosity, creativity, and desire for joy.

Our OPW noticed this and offered support. Together, they managed to balance 10 ladders and Afzal’s eyes lit up. However, this time, he wanted to try it on his own. With a nod of encouragement, he picked up the pieces again. This time, his hands were steadier and his focus was sharper. One by one, more steps of the ladder stood tall.
The children around him began to take notice and many came forward to help. When he finally completed the game, the entire class applauded and this made Afzal feel joyous. The same children who once distanced themselves from Afzal now gathered around him and also welcomed him into the groups. Play had created a space for empathy to grow. The next time our OPW went to the class, he saw that Afzal wasn’t sitting alone, he was surrounded by friends, laughing and playing with confidence.
Through a single game, play had shifted perspectives. It gave Afzal a voice, a platform to shine, and a way to connect with others on equal ground. For the other children, it taught powerful lessons in resilience, kindness, and the importance of inclusion.